Back to school this week. I'm now seeing a distinct pattern with Missy when it comes to starting a new term.
The day before school starts she is erratic, acts like a baby, makes noises, wants lots of attention, tantrums and will say at bedtime she has a tummy ache. It's not that she hates school because she actually quite likes it. She wanted to go back to school, she isn't a refuser. She was really looking forward to seeing her friends, particularly as we didn't have any play dates in the holidays.
In class for the first week or so I'm hearing that she is chatting a lot, not fully engaged and concentrating. After school she will be grumpy and cheeky and is my constant shadow. This appears to now be the pattern each term until she settles back into the routine. I know some of it will be down to tiredness. She's well and truly ready for her bedtime by 7pm. I'm well and truly ready for her bedtime by 7pm. Some of it will be missing being at home and some will be simply the change of routine. I've told her every morning as I leave her at school that I will be thinking about her and looking forward to when she comes home, so that we can play Lego/play hairdressers/ do some art/go to M&S Cafe. I'm not sure if it works but I'll continue to say it anyway. We also need to remember that at times she regresses. We had a t-shirt incident earlier this week - we were both busy with something or other and she was screaming and shouting for us to take her t-shirt off so she could get ready for bed. Getting undressed is not a problem for Missy, but I guess for whatever reason that day it was and we didn't handle it well. Since then if she needs help dressing or undressing then I've helped, which calms her down. Occasionally we really do have to think toddler.
We discussed pocket money with her for the first time today. She has a few chores to do, including feeding the cats which is something she likes doing anyway and at the end of the week this can earn her £1 (I'm quite sure we'll give it to her anyway). When we explained that after one month of pocket money she could buy her own hair ties (she'd buy up the whole of Claire's if she could), or after six months she could probably buy a new Build A Bear Workshop toy plus clothes, or several One Direction/Vamps CDs, her eyes lit up! Consequently she's very keen to help around the house this morning. I'm not sure what the going rate is for pocket money these days but we're sticking at £1. What do you give, if any?
In other news, I started Pilates this week and Daddy has started badminton again. Not sure if you're meant to ache this much two days afterwards but we do. I'm hoping the Pilates will help my back and hip so I can then start running again.